Reining in the Tongue

If there is anything that I struggle with, this would probably be the most damaging of them all. I find that it is tough to think while speaking, which is why I find writing an easy alternative. I often find myself saying things I know I'll regret later, especially to those I love the most. I suppose that idea of loving someone and them loving you makes it easier to lash out with the tongue and do some pretty deep damage at times. To me, that person is almost obligated to love you, especially when they're family. It's a sad way to think about things, but unfortunately, it's how most of us usually think, whether consciously or not.

I guess the old saying comes into play here whether talking to or about someone...
"If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all."

So, to all of you out there who I have either cut down with words or made ya look bad somehow, I'm sorry. Love you all! :D